Sjogren's Mom

The Story Mother of Two Living with Sjogren's Syndrome

We're Home!

Everything went as scheduled.  No surprises here, as my husband and I are two very planned individuals.  I went in to the hospital around 7am on Wednesday morning, by 9am I was walking my way into the OR and getting up onto the table for my spinal.  By 915am my spinal was set and they were beginning to prep me for surgery.  My husband was escorted in to find my teeth chattering - a side effect of the spinal (last time I had the nausea, so I'll take chattering teeth).  He sat by my side until about 935am when the OB let us know that the team was close and if he was interested, he could stand up and watch our son being born.  I was just glad he didn't pass out.

Our son was born at 940am, and they whisked him away to clean him up and check him out - initial APGAR of 8, 9 after 5 minutes.  All great signs.  He was crying like a mad man the whole time - what a great sound to hear from behind the drapes.  The OB let us know after everything was over and they were going to wheel me into recovery that he presented ear first...like he was listening to what was going on outside the womb.

My first glimpse of him was on the scale...and as most of the people in the OR knew my first son was 10lbs 7oz, we were ALL eager to see how close our guesses were.  He weighed in at 7lbs 15.6oz...so they round up to 8lbs even.  He was 21 1/2 inches long - just 1/2 inch short of his big brother.  LONG child with very long fingers.  He doesn't look too much like his big brother, and definitely has Mom's fingers and toes (including her crooked second toe!).

Everything went like clockwork, they wheeled us into recovery for a little while and by about noon we were settling into our hospital room.  He was a great nurser early on, and after his circumcision backed off a bit.  We're still working on the ideal latch and a good length of nursing time, but so far so good.  The doctors let us know that we could leave the hospital a day early, and given we missed our older son SO much (although he was a real trooper the days we were gone!!), we decided Saturday morning to leave so we were home in time for dinner.

That was a great decision - was amazing to see our older son after several days (we've never been apart!), and we actually got more rest at home that night than I think we would have gotten in the hospital.  Unlike our older son, this peanut is a sleeper...he gave us several multiple hour sleep spells the last few nights...and he sleeps most of the day.  We went to the pediatrician this morning and although he's down to 7lbs 1oz (his lowest on Friday night was 7lbs 4 3/4oz), the doctor wasn't too concerned given his pee output.  We're going to get another weight check on Friday just for peace of mind, but it was nice to have a good feeding earlier today.  Here's hoping that stays consistent.

No signs of anything Sjogren's related, especially the heart block.  I did get a nice external yeast infection (oh joy) and my feet and ankles are very swollen.  However, I've backed off the pain medication and am making due just taking it easy.  I definitely had more discomfort early on with the incision, but today was able to get out to the doctor and then out to the sandbox with my older son for a little while.  Definitely miss my one-on-one time with him, but luckily my husband's been able to be home with us and helping supplement my lack of availability (especially when it comes to the toilet training).  He's also been a real trooper with diaper changes (think I've done 1 these past 6 days...even though I've helped with most of the others).

Here's hoping the next few days I get more mobile and back on my feet...oh, and start dropping the weight.  Although it was nice to eat by day 2, it didn't really help me lose anything.  Came home a whopping 4 lbs lighter.  Woo hoo.  Guess the swelling doesn't really help with the weight loss.  I know that last time it was a few days after I was home that I finally noticed a big drop.  Here's hoping it happens again.  Although I'm only up 50lbs (instead of the 60 from last time)...add the 10+ lbs I put on getting pregnant and that's still a nice chunk of weight to get off.  I'm in no hurry to be in a bathing suit or modeling skimpy garments any time soon...just looking forward to wearing more than 2 pairs of maternity shorts :-)